Saturday, February 9, 2019


  πŸ•ΊπŸ‘« I am excited because it is a Valentine season and my man promised to Put a smile on me. For Real Fans! He wants me to tell him anything that will make me happy. HmmmmπŸ€”. Then I thought of this question which I will like great contributions from you all.
Can a man please his woman? Let's get Realwithkem and make this fun😜😜😜

Saturday, January 26, 2019

How to handle a Crush part 2

            You may be happily married and still have crush over him/her😜. For real! It is not a big deal. Here are some tips if you don't want to; 
If you can avoid seeing that person please do. If it is someone you cannot avoid owing to the job-related circumstance, then always act normal when you are with him/her by taking a deep breath. You can also get yourself busy with what you love doing in order to take your mind off your crush. You can also get a journal, write your feelings down and also write why your dream concerning your crush can't be possible. For instance, he may be short/too tall, he may be poor/ too rich for you. Finally, keep telling your brain not to think about it because you do not want to get into such mess. For real! It can be a mess up. The good news is that you can control your mind and brain. The word ’Love’ is not reality in itself but we make it real,  so you can wish it off. Your eyes communicate with your brain what they see and your mind tells your brain that is your crush then your brain program it and keep working on it on your behalf. Unless you really want to have a flingπŸ™ˆ, Yeah! I Don't know about that 🀷‍♀, you are old enough to do what you are capable of and to be ready for the consequences if there is any. 
Fan! Always get Realwithkem😘😘

Saturday, January 19, 2019

How to handle a Crush part 1πŸ˜”

  The feel of a crush can either be  positive or negative. It can also be exciting because you feel happy when you are around the person. Thinking of your crush can make you smile and breathe in fresh air. You look forward to giving him a lovely smile with a sexy body language. For real! A crush can also be terrifying. It can be a battle within you which may be due to you being married, engaged or your crush being in  a relationship 😳. 
Few things are involved in this crush situation. First, search your heart to find out why you are having a crush over this person. You may be having a crush due to your bad relationship, you may be single or maybe he/she is cute😜. If the crush is due to being in a bad relationship  then you need to get out from the bad relationship first because it is simply called unfinished business which can put both of you in a mess. You can now search your heart to see if you are still having the same feelings towards this person after getting out of the bad relationship and if you still feel the same, then go for itπŸ™ˆ. Yeah! Turn your flirt on and make the first move if you can. For real! If you really want something you go for it. Here are steps to get his/her attention. First, make your feelings known to him/her by mimicking his body language whenever you are in a conversation. For instance, if he leans on a wall just do the same thing with a smile and make eyes contact. But remember not to act desperately and don't try too hard. You may be lucky to catch him/her😜. If he/she doesn't want you, it's okay, at least you
 tried. Just move on and get over it. There are lots of crushes out there for you. Just keep working on your self and never stop adding values to yourself. ( Watch out!!! For part 2!!!😘) Never stop getting Realwithkem😘

Saturday, January 5, 2019

My Crush ❤️πŸ‘€

    ”Each time I walked into the office, I could hear my heart beats and I always lost concentration especially when I set my eyes on him.  Oh gosh! My heart and brain needed him to function well. My body wished to feel his glowing skin. He didn't even notice my feelings. His words gave another interpretation in my brain. All I could imagine him say was  ’I love you too.’ 
For real! I'm in love with him but I can't tell him. He knows I'm  married and my husband drops me off at work every day. I'm in a total mess.πŸ˜’πŸ€·‍♀”

That is the story of a married woman having a crush on another man at work. It should not be a surprising story. Let's all run  this issue through our minds before writing on it. What advice do you have for this woman? Feel free to in box me if you do not want to be identified. Let's just be REALWITHKEM😘

Saturday, December 22, 2018

Successful Relationship πŸ‘¨‍❤️‍πŸ‘¨

      A woman in a happy marriage can be lovable, kind-hearted, joyful, loyal, luscious, magnetic and kind. Unfortunately, happy marriage never built itself. It needs lots of work, devotions and sacrifices. It is amazing that husband and wife that married for a long time never look at marital problems in the same way. Usually, a woman gets worried and sad whenever there is trouble in her marriage. Man now gets frustrated by his wife being sad and worry. A woman can spend the whole day nagging about what makes her angry but the man never wants to talk about it. The good part is that, woman stops nagging the moment the man feels her pain; that's all. 

What a woman wants most is for her lover to feel her pain then she will call off the battle. Do you know the interesting part? Man gets frustrated being empathetic with his woman. It's okay! It is advisable to make that sacrifice at that time for the sake of peace in the marriage. It takes lots of effort to be able to empathize in a relationship but it brings the best result if practised. Good news! A woman can be a man goddess if she gets treated the right way.


Thursday, December 6, 2018

New Love ❤️ Part 2

         I picked Shady up at the airport with a big smile on me, I walked up to her, about to wrap my hands around her for a hug; I was surprised to see her turning away from me. I apologized for any inconvenience but she smiled back at me and said ’ I'm not used to hugging man in public".  I'm shy she  said further.  Oh! Hmmm! I don't know about that because I thought she should be matured enough then I remembered it may be due to cultural differences. 
Our two days of being together was  really great. We had a great sex 😌 and I was relieved of a huge loneliness. Shady exposed her true self to me about the fourth day. She heard me talking to someone on the phone and then she exploded, calling me all sort of  names. For real! I started getting nervous talking to her. I apologized- being in a country whose law favors female. On the  Seventh day, she threatened to call the police, oh! Oh! It was getting serious. There was a day she wanted me to do some shopping for her and I was cashless. That day was an unforgettable day for me. 

She locked me out of my house and she broke all my things. Thereafter  I thought of staying late at work to escape from coming to a hot home. I prayed to God fervently every day to let that moment pass by  as soon as possible. I prayed God I really want to be single again. Shady still has a few weeks to spend with me. In a week period with Shady, we get along for only two days and fought the remaining days of her stay. Life was miserable. 
At the end of her visitation I couldn't wait to drop her off at the airport after a hot argument. She said to me never to contact each other which made me happy. I was glad to drop her off at the bus station instead without talking to each  other. When I got home, it was like a Paradise on earth. I was so happy to have my peace and freedom again. Wait a minute! I learned my lesson to enjoy every moment of life and stop complaining. There is nothing like loneliness is a disease. Being by oneself sometimes may bring access to lots of things than you think- you will be closer to God and prepare yourself for the next 
upcoming event in your life. It is always a good idea to enjoy every moment in a lifetime period because you can never get that time back.

Friday, November 30, 2018

New Love Part 1


         I stood still at the same spot and kept wandering. I didn't even know what to do. I was restless, bored and lonely. I believed loneliness was a big problem. I always wished to be welcome by my lover. I always imagined the comfort a real woman could give to her true love. Something like a welcome kiss on the cheeks, assist in taking my jacket off. A delicious dinner served with love and care. I was always battling with all this thoughts in my head and hoping to come true one day.

I was at work when I got a friendship request on the social media from a lady who used to be my old schoolmate. I was happy to accept her because she has been my crush when we were in school. We did a little update especially after a long period of time because I remembered she was only 20 years old then. She has now grown to be a big lady, I couldn't believe she was  already 35 years old. She's still beautiful and my kind of woman. I still remembered calling her Shady. I asked if I could still call her same old name and she was pleased with it. Shady asked if I was still single, and I told the truth that I was  and really bored being by myself. I couldn't reject her offer of visitation Wow! I was very excited because the weather is presently cold and we were even preparing for our first snow of the season. My dream was about to come true. (Watch Out For Part 2)


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