Saturday, August 17, 2019

Power of understanding

   

”Baby go slow when you get into me, also go easy when you suck on my breast.” Lovers should be able to tell themselves how they want to be treated. That doesn't mean you are an habitual complainer, but just wanting him/her to get to know you. This brings us to know what we want in a relationship. First, you need to find yourself and know what you want from a relationship. Second, you learn to know your partner and identify her needs if you truly love her. If you really want to get what you want in a relationship then you have to give what you have to meet your partner’s needs. Most relationships want love, security, and trust. Love comes from the affection you have for each other. Security comes from understanding yourself and your partner then you can give the security she wants. Trust will definitely build itself if the other two (love and security ) are in place. It is very important for partners to be able to speak up and let your partner know how you want it. 
Always get Realwithkem.

Saturday, July 20, 2019

Will You Be There?




            I believe you when you tell me you do love me. Yeah! I feel comfortable resting my head on your chest, and your hands moving gently over my skin. Your sweet voice saying to me ’I will always be there Babe! Look into my eyes and let's get emotionally connected. Can I see with your eyes when mine are not right"? 
The words ’I will be there’ means you will be able to hold me tight whenever we have a storm. What will you do when our enemies try to break us? Will you be prepared when they tell you I'm a wrong person and will you let them know I'm wrong to them so I can be your right? Babe! As you know, our love is ordained from heaven and it will definitely attract intruders. Can you handle it when the whole world comes against me? My sweetheart! Be free to hold me tight against my wish and never let go if that is the only way to keep me away from the wolves. Remember! Since that day I made the declaration to be yours, I live in you and you in me. I choose you before my family and friends, so remember your promise to be there when I need you, my love. Always get Realwithkem!

          

Saturday, July 6, 2019

Why should I Love U Less?


      Despite  living in each other's heart and I holding you to myself, I still can't have enough of you. No matter how hard I try to love you less, you always leave me with a feeling that can't just seem to die. A minute of your absence seems like an hour. The only words that echo in my brain and mind are your voices. Thinking of you alone gives me assurance of a better future. Each time I push you a foot away, you pull yourself back closer  than ever before. You always give me a reason to hold you closer and look into your eyes to read unspoken love you have for me. The closer I look at you the more I see the feelings written all over you. Our arguments session always seem like two warriors on a battlefield but the love I have for you always bring me to submission and realization that I am part of you and I have to compromise for things to straighten out. Despite how tough and strong you are, you still leave me a  soft part in your heart that makes me keep falling in love with you. You also give me reasons  I should want you in this life and life after. You never see what I do wrong, instead you see what you want me to do better. My dearest soulmate, if I have the chance to negotiate with our creator, I will request for a reservation of you and I will pay all my dues just to have you. Thanks for the gift of love. Always. Get Realwithkem 

                              


Friday, June 21, 2019

Seeking For Love

                   
I wanted to be loved so bad when I was a teenager but I couldn't find  love. I always stayed depressed in my little room and wondering why the root of a plant you trusted will not be able to grow the good seed that can give you joy. There is always a certain period in a teenagers' life that they wanted to be loved. My heart is always occupied with sadness, and I kept asking myself what have I done wrong. I am a devoted worshipper but I knew I was missing something. After high school, I decided to have a man in my life, with the belief of getting what I was missing. He was more mature and I was looking forward to learning from him. My parents were not in support of the relationship but I was desperate for love. I was excited to move in with my man despite my parents not supporting the idea. I could still remember him teaching me how to cook and telling me how to do things. I guessed he got tired of babysitting a wife at some point. It was only three months of our togetherness and the table turned around. The love field then turned to a battle one. A wife started getting treated like a girl. It wasn't a good experience. There was a day he went to work and I thought of him returning back home then I was worried and restless. I was so scared that my so-called husband will be home in a few minutes, then I started cleaning the house, dusting everywhere. I was just confused because I didn't know what he would complain about. He came in from work, I greeted him and offered him food. Unfortunately for me, he said I didn't do a good job putting his clothes away, then the situation went bad. I could not return to my parents and I couldn't narrate my terrible experience to them. I kept mute and enduring. The abuse was getting too much and unbearable but I decided to stay  because I thought opting out at that point in time will only worsen my situation. Life seemed like hell to me. A wife turned to a slave, the heart that supposed to be occupied with love was full of fear. I later got out but it was too late. It was also unfortunate that I was still desperately seeking for love even after I left him and I kept getting into wrong relationships. Life can throw  you around sometimes, but is always good to explore and study the part  life throws at you because it will be useful for the rest of the journey.

That is a true life story of a lady seeking for love. This is my take on this situation; Parents are supposed to show their children how to be loved because if they don't, the children will get it somewhere else which may be disastrous.  Generally, it is a good idea to calmly seek for love because if you feel like shopping 

desperately, you will surely buy what you do not need which can build up to be a monster in your life. Individual desperately seeking for love never think straight, their judgment has already been altered because they think people don't love them so they take an act like kindness for love. This is the trick, your brain and mind make you miss what you do not have. It is simple mathematics if you keep telling your brain that you are lacking something then your brain will process it and interpret it that you are really missing that thing. So, try to play with your brain and mind. Don't get me wrong, you can seek for love but never get desperate because if you do, you will rush out just the same way you rushed into the relationship. Take care of yourself and invest in yourself for the right person. If you want true love, do not seek desperately. Take your time building yourself to be able to accommodate the upcoming lover. Let me rest my pen here😜. Always be Realwithkem.


Power of understanding

    ”Baby go slow when you get into me, also go easy when you suck on my breast.” Lovers should be able to tell themselves how they want ...