Saturday, December 7, 2019

Wrong Turn


      Each step forward gives me hope, assurance, and something to live for. Unfortunately, it is difficult to keep taking the steps. I can still hear it loud and clear that I was the most beautiful lady, a woman with the power to get what she wants. I used to like freedom which was my favorite lifestyle. Fine! I never had any goals then, but I was happy I could meet up with my immediate needs. 
I feel going forward has too many rules to get to the destination but my past has no rules, I just do whatever I want. I feel like turning back to finish up some businesses 😳
          Yeah! Our past is the terror that terrifies our future and the only weapons to conquer it are love, determination, built-in strength, and strong will. Moving forward should always be our goal ; never turn into your past because it will eventually swallow you up. Those friends you left in your past will always want you again in the name of love. That life with no rules will always occur to you. A step back into your past can be 20 steps away from your future. For real! Those friends you left in the past already picked up another set of friends but won't want to send you off when you return back to them. So, a step into the past will cause you a lot than what you can regain towards the future. Finally, be focused and see what the future has in store for you. Also, never blame yourself for the decisions you  made in the past, earn some courage to make better decisions in the future.   

Saturday, November 16, 2019

Love Medication

      
     One of my favorite games is dice rolling. Do you know why? When you about to roll your dice, you will have mixed feelings; the excitement of you winning and anxiety of you losing the game but either way, you will roll out the dice and deal with the outcome. Now let's put the dice rolling and relationship together. When you are about to propose to her, I bet you can’t wait for her to accept your proposal then later when you are alone, you will get that perception of ”wow"! She accepted. "What if things didn't work out as  planned”? Yeah!  Relationship is a game of winning, losing or just hanging-in till you exit from the game in any form. Good luck if you win but check if she is also winning πŸ˜‰. Are you hanging in or losing? You are the only person that can decide for you. An outsider will never get it right, you have to make your smart choice. Think about the beginning of the relationship, the present and where the relationship could end; then you can now make your decision on what to do. Just make sure you are not sentimental with your accusations, write out your wrongs and rights then check if your wrongs caused the calamities in the relationship. If it did, make corrections if you can because no one is perfect. Just be sure you put in your best to fix it and if your best doesn't work, see if you have paid enough for your wrongs; because sometimes, some partner will want you to pay for your wrongs. You should do all this in order to have peace within yourself in case you decided to quit. Finally, never let anyone make decisions for you concerning your love life, you can listen to people’s advice and suggestions then put what works for you together because you will be the only one to deal with your decision-making.     

Saturday, October 26, 2019

Sowing Seeds


     Digging a hole may seem like fun and also can be difficult especially if the soil is not a friendly kind. Then we put seeds in the hole and face the commitment part which is watering the seeds for better growth. Yep! The most exciting part is the harvesting period. Let's be Realwithkem here, all this illustration applies to a relationship. You can only harvest what you planted. Love is commitment and sacrifice. Forget about what you want to gain from the relationship but work on what you want to put in the relationship then you get a good fortune in return. Never let your relationship shape you but you shape your relationship to what you want then it will give you peace at last. Let your goals be what you want to do for her/him for a better tomorrow and wait to see if the good wishes won't come back to you. Even if the relationship eventually collapsed, you will reap your good deeds in another relationship because you have trained yourself  to be a good seed sower in a relationship. Take these tips; You can only sow seeds with patience, commitment, tolerance, and unconditional love. Finally, learn to close your eyes to some little things that may want to distract you when sowing your seeds in your relationship so you can achieve your aims. Always get Realwithkem!


Saturday, October 12, 2019

My Artistic Love

     You are right if you think men like hot ladies with beautiful nice boobs and shape. Do you think men want more in their women than how they look? Yes! Most men prefer  women with natural beauty and looking sexy. 
It is a good idea for a woman to get herself sexy wears and take care of her natural beauty. Yeah! Men want to open up to their women without being judged😊 All you have to do as a woman is to be a good listener. A man's beauty lies in his purposes of life. He likes a partner that plans future with him, sharing kind of the same longterm goals with him. Don't get me wrong! A woman does not have to put her own goal under the rug because, men like women with dreams and goals, she just needs to have an interest in her partner’s goals. For real! Men like  smart women that do not put all their energy into something unproductive. Compatibility is very important in a relationship, as such men prefer women not struggling to hold relationships together; want to be comfortable  around them. 
More importantly, men like their women to have good vibes as in, being straight up, cheerful, honest, being in good mood, lovely but not possessive. Finally, men like their women to be their prostitute when it comes to sex, as in, do him as if you will get paid for itπŸ˜³πŸ‘ˆπŸ½ 
Always get Realwithkem.

Saturday, September 28, 2019

Real Man’s Joy

   
  Men have good intentions when it comes to pleasing their women in bed. It is just unfortunate women sometimes complain of pain during sexual activities. Some men even get a turn-on when their women give sound or show some signs of pleasure during sex. Men want to look like the Savior of sex, they like to be praised that they do a great job with their women. All this makes the men overdo it😳😳. My dear men, try these tips to please your women; always start with foreplay and don't scare your woman with your d**k. Let her know it's meant to give her pleasure not to beat her up. Men’s fingers are strong so when you touch your woman with either your tongue or fingers make it look as if you are moving a feather over her body, making it light and slow because women's body is not as strong as yours. Remember not to push down with your finger or shove it up anywhere. Do not rub or jab or poke anything at all.

It takes a while  to get women's body to arouse, so foreplay her with the feather-light touch then she will come closer to you for more. Here are some erogenous zones to explore with your mouth and fingers on women; Clit( very gentle tongue-touched ), flip her over and feather-light kiss her back, knees, feet, elbow. Wait a minute! Always remember to slow down your breathing, don't breath too loud, calm down and work as if you are hired to give her sexual pleasure. Play with her body and listen to her moves then she will always come back to you and make you her number one. Lastly! Go slow when you are in her and always ask her if she is okayπŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰ Always get Realwithkem.

Friday, September 6, 2019

Regrets of unsaid Feelings


   
        ”No one can handle you with care as I do and no one can give you the assurance of future the way I do. Your love seems like a mansion that was patiently built and beautified with everything that gives joy on earth. Do you really know how I feel when I set my eyes on you? Your voice always turns me on babe. My phone can't ring without viewing your angelica smile. I never want you to leave me for a second. But it seems you are leaving me forever, no! Don't do this please, don’t demolish the constructed mansion of love we built. I may be stupid not to show you how much you meant to me. I thought you could see it in my eyes. I never thought of telling you ’I love you’ in a way you want to hear it. Oh no! I can't just handle this situation babe. I need a second chance”
When you really love your partner, your life is not only yours but for both of you. It is not about how you think you should express the love but you find out from her how she wants to be loved. The words you say may mean a lot to your lover. Tell her/him what you feel. Cherish her to her face not behind her back. Hold her tight as if it will be the last chance to get closer to her. Finally, communication plays a huge role on how to love him.
Always get Realwithkem.

Saturday, August 17, 2019

Power of understanding

   

”Baby go slow when you get into me, also go easy when you suck on my breast.” Lovers should be able to tell themselves how they want to be treated. That doesn't mean you are an habitual complainer, but just wanting him/her to get to know you. This brings us to know what we want in a relationship. First, you need to find yourself and know what you want from a relationship. Second, you learn to know your partner and identify her needs if you truly love her. If you really want to get what you want in a relationship then you have to give what you have to meet your partner’s needs. Most relationships want love, security, and trust. Love comes from the affection you have for each other. Security comes from understanding yourself and your partner then you can give the security she wants. Trust will definitely build itself if the other two (love and security ) are in place. It is very important for partners to be able to speak up and let your partner know how you want it. 
Always get Realwithkem.

Wrong Turn

      Each step forward gives me hope, assurance, and something to live for. Unfortunately, it is difficult to keep taking the steps. I ca...