Monday, May 29, 2017

Personality & Love

"She will do anything for me. My lady knows my thoughts and always ahead of my plans. I love ❤ her with my soul. She stays hungry just for me to eat and awake so I can sleep. I thought this is what love should be all about until the day she looked into my eyes and said 'I am done with you.' The words she uttered on that day hurt me more than being stabbed with a knife because it was sharp and it went through my heart. I then came across one of Realwithkem's sayings: "There is a difference between personality and love in a relationship; In most cases it is easy to take one for the other. We all have our different personalities and we will definitely deposit it into our relationships. Sometimes we get lucky to meet a lover with some great personalities like being caring, submissiveness.  Unfortunately, we might consider all these personalities to be love, when they are not. Your partner can have all this good personalities without loving you. Don't get me wrong, he/she is not deceiving you because is just who she is. It is left to you to identify whether she loves you or just acting herself. How do you identify? Easy! Pay attention if she portrays the same personalities towards everyone, then you can identify she is just acting herself. Love is when you go extra mile to show your affection towards your lover; when you do something you won't do to everyone. So, lovers should pay attention to their relationships by not accepting personalities for love.'
Really! I'm just careless in this relationship. You won't believe why she left me. My lady said ' I'm thinking you maybe cheating on me' Believe me! I didn't do it, I truly love her."
Now to the house what do you think? Let's get real with Kem!



One of the most painful rejection is in romantic love. Unfortunately, most people tend to love those who aren't as passionate about them. We all know that rejection is number one fear among individuals. Also, one of the deepest needs of human beings is the need to belong and to be accepted. If we are rejected in one way or the other, we consider ourselves a failure.
If you can take a good look at the first paragraph, you noticed all of these just have to do with your thinking&brain. You make your brain do all these thinking for you and you can as well make it go away. You have the will power to wish things away. If you find yourself in this situation of being rejected; first, use self hypnosis which helps to access unconscious mind and shape it in ways you wanted it to be.
Other things you can do are; make new friends, make yourself feel good, tell yourself you are valuable and you can get someone better.
Finally, if anyone rejected you, do not reject yourself because you are the most beautiful being on earth.
Now to the house, what do you think? Let's get real with Kem!


I believed dreams come true, because mine did when I met you, my love. I will love you till the stars go out and the tides no longer turn. Your voice makes my world full of smiles. I understand true love comes once in a lifetime and I know you are the one for me. I am happy to offer you all of me today and for always." Yeah! Just exactly what woman wants to hear from her admirer. Do you know what? It depends on when those words come to you. I don't think those words should be said on the first date. If you are fortunate to hear the words from him on that first date (which makes the words unreal),I will suggest you should just enjoy and let the sweet words heal your soul. But, if those words come to you as the journey of love goes on, then you may give it a thought. Finally, if the words come to you at the time both of you are going through some difficulties in the relationship, please try to believe him and make it possible for him to fulfill his promise. Now to the house, do you think it real when lovers express their love towards each other in time of difficulties?

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