Saturday, August 19, 2017

The Door of Love


  It means a lot when you close the door behind you. Yeah! There are lots of commotions presently in that room; situations like arguments, screaming, weeping, regrets and so on. But, closing the door behind you may not resolve the commotions; it may only take your eyes off them for a short time. Closing the door can even cause you greater regret which may leads to loosing the love of your life. Yeah! Here is the deal! Relationship is one the best things that can ever happen to man and also may be one of the worse things that can also occur in a man's life. The good news is that  human beings have the Will  to decide and define the aspect of relationship they want to experience. Yeah! Shit happens in relationships but there are more disgusting shit out there. It is always good to weigh your opinions before you close the door of Love in your life. 
As always, I welcome your contribution. Let's get Realwithkem!

13 comments:

  1. Kem this is a good advice for lovers. I would just add that when you want to shut the door dont slam it. Just close gently. You never know, you may need to reopen that door to admit that person in in the future, maybe after reconciliation sha. Dont do anything when you are upset. All your actions when you are angry will not be rational. Ti a ba ti ilekun mo eni buburu, a ko ni mo igba ti eni rere ma wa ni enu ilekun.

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    2. "LOVE DON'T CLOSE DOORS"

      Real love is success, it opened door for both the good, bad and ugly.

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    3. "LOVE DON'T CLOSE DOORS"

      Real love is success, it opened door for both the good, bad and ugly.

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    4. Thanks for the contribution sir.

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  2. I love this group.... It got me interested

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  3. You are all right after all but in some cases....one need to be quite. But I must admit... One need to give love a second chance

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    1. Thanks for the contribution sis.

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    2. Kem,whether u close d doors to ur self or u stay outsidet u will always have disappointment in life .The best way to go is just make up Ur minds wen u want to go and ask God to go wt u cos only God can sort u out behind closed doors not wisdom,nor book or diplomacy. Thanks

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  4. Closing d doors is d solution to marital or life problems, even wen u decide to stay outside or have a plan to walk away wen d going get tough is not d answer.The thing make up Ur mind and take God along as u walk in through dt door.you will always find hope and joy in Christ as d best friend dt sticks in all season.kudos kemi.shalom

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  5. Olowolagba OluwaseunAugust 20, 2017 at 9:03 PM

    Well in my own view to this write-up, closing door is different from banging/slaming a door blcos one can close door without any damage occurred but whn one is banging/slamming the door there will be minor or major damages occurred which will not make the owner of the door happy even of giving chance again to the person banged the door to relate with the door again therefore in my own perspective, one can close the door of love/relationship that wants to create havoc n set back into one life but not banging it so that enemnity will not be created unnecessarily.

    I look at it in this form, God still loves Adam n Eve despised what they had done by providing cloth for them to cover their nakedness & shame blcos he is merciful n compassionate God but fact still remained that God closed the door/entrance of garden of Eden against them n drive them away therefore with my understanding on love & relationship in any form; one can close the door n drive away the person frm the garden of ur life I.e avoidance n restriction in letting the person/lover knws the source of wht gives Joy n strength in ur life till u see trust, confidence n transparent again in that person/lover.

    Finally, one has to be very careful not to be mistakenly turn lust to love n @ the end of day be regretting of the act Realwithkem, keep it up n rgds to ur family, u are blessed, Shalom(peace).

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