Saturday, September 30, 2017

Relationship Spice


       Get away from me Satan! Wow! The Bible made me understand that my tongue πŸ‘… is empowered with authority and I should use it to declare success every time.  There is no place in the Bible I was told to use my tongue πŸ‘… for pleasure; so what is all this my spouse is requesting from me? I can never use the tongue I use in casting out demons to s**k, it's not possible. 
When I met my spouse, she was a strong born again Christian but now she is something else. She said her friends schooled her on the pleasure of s**king. My Sweetheart Taylor is now requesting that from me, come on! I'm a well known man of God. Now I'm concerned that my babe is pulling up attitude due to not meeting her request. I never thought she could turned to a new woman that wants to be su***d before she can enjoy sex. I need your advice because I'm thinking of opting out of the relationship and search for a good Christian sister. I need to make it to heaven and no woman will stop me due to worldly things. 
Now to the house, what do you think😜😜😜😜? Just get Realwithkem

Saturday, September 23, 2017

Unhappy Relationship

      "I will rather stay single than to be in an unhappy relationship. Yes! That's is just the truth of it. I have only one life to live and I also have my choices to make. Moreso, the will power to change my life is in my hands. I am the best person to give myself an advice because I know the truth and I can't lie to myself. So, why should I think of what people will say, people just say what others want to hear about you. Even your best friend can't feel you. The one thing I sometimes appreciate in people  is that, either in success or failure , somebody out there will always celebrate you. It is also true that even in success someone will still  cry you down. 
The good thing about failure is that, it  strengthens your inner self. 
Yeah! I understand is good to endure in a relationship but at what point does it become being endangered.
Men have opportunities for multiple trials when it comes to dating with no regards to age. Women are just precious mother, lovely and soft hearted human being that likes to respect the woman in them 😘😘😘😘. But still, in a relationship I come first, if I'm not happy in it then it not worth it. Yeah! The love we give to the community comes from our relationship. If we harbor bad relationship that makes us cry 😭 always, then we don't have love in us to give to the world. All we will have in us will be meanness , hatred and revenge. All this can eat up our soul. Bad relationship is just as bad as soul in a dead body.
Now back to my question, when is the good time to say no to endurance in a relationship?"
The lady needs your response, let's get RealwithKem!

Saturday, September 16, 2017

Time Bomb in Relationships

      Time bomb in a relationship is what everyone should watch out for. 
My lady is a caring and loving woman. Shelly is a mother and a wife to me. I am so lucky to experience the joy of love through her. I'm always at peace when I looked into her eyes. 
My sweetheart also has this comforting voice that keeps me calm whenever I'm restless. Do you know something? I'm kind of worried about our relationship. Shelly, the love of my life never has any complain about me since we have been married two years now. That scary to me because it seems not just possible. No relationship is perfect, there should be a misunderstanding of some sort . We are from different parents and raised indifferent environments as such we can never perfectly match each other. Hummmmmn, believe me, something is wrong somewhere. I'm thinking maybe Shelly is playing me or I'm the kind of person that never accept corrections and that makes her keep to herself. I just don't know, I need suggestions on what to do because I'm sure if I do not fix this, it could be a time bomb relationship  which if ignited may turn  disastrous. Yeah!!!

As usual, get Realwithkem and give the young man some suggestions.

Saturday, September 9, 2017

Messy Relationship

        "Why now? Yeah! I mean why is he doing this to me now, he should have done this long time ago. I truly love him with all my heart but I noticed I was just a giver of love but not a receiver. He never tells me he loves me, even for him to say it back; it's always an issue for him. We can do without talking to each other if I should ever complaine of him not showing me enough love. I regretted the day I gave my heart to him. I was just stupid because I should have noticed all this before having children with him but I was blinded with the gifts he used to give me and promises he made. My love life got worst that I was almost laid off from work then I decided to have a friend. Yeah! A boyfriend of cause; believe me I needed it because I was at the point of committing a suicide. My boyfriend gives me love and commitment, please don't judge me because I understand we all own our happiness and marriage is not the only thing that can give us happiness. At first, I just wanted to seek happiness from my boyfriend but I never knew I was slipping into loving him until when my husband started complaining that I have changed. I thought my husband will even get angry at me and opt out of the marriage but instead, he changed to a better person. Wow! Unbelievable, I never knew he had such an angelical part in him but it was too late. My husband just messed my life up because I'm kind being of in love with this new boyfriend. My husband refused to let go of me though and I'm confused because I just don't know what to do."
Now to the house, the young lady needs your opinions. Let's get RealwithKem!

Saturday, September 2, 2017

Other side of Love ❤️

    I used to wonder the exact time or second things change between lovers. Then,  love  suddenly turns to  hatred. That man/lady you can't do without turns to that person you do not want to see,hnmmmm; it is terrible because at the beginning of the journey (love), it always seems it should last forever and ever. 
Unfortunately, most of the time, not all that starts the race of love finish it. But there is one thing that is clear to me; 'True love lives forever.' Yeah! You being married to or separated from your lover do not define if it's  true love or not. 
You may have true & pure love for each other but  may not even have the opportunity to live together - things happen. The good thing is that you will definitely know if you truly love each other. You will feel and have the love for him/her even with his /her imperfections . You will not be able to try to get rid of his/her though from your memory even if you try.  Whenever you are lonely all you can think of is him/her. Do you know the funniest part? You may even get married or dating someone else but you still feel this old lover to the extent of remembering him/her when having intercourse with your new lover πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ. Hnmmm, tough! 😊😊, remembering or feeling that your old lover doesn't mean you are confused; it just human nature and the love is real. Here is my take on this; just enjoy every moment with whom you claim to be your lover because you never can predict what will happen in the next second. Is better to get stuck with the good memories of both of you than the sad ones. 
Back to my first paragraph; so, it is always good to stay calm and rethink if the love you have towards him/her was even real at first. If the love is real at first the table may not even turn around and if it does , the most that could happen is both to be either separated or divorced but not to wish each other hell. Let's watch out our journey of love.
😊😊let me rest my pen and welcome your contributions . Let's get Realwithkem!

Wrong Turn

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