Friday, October 27, 2017



      “I thought I was loosing it when I heard ‘I love you’. Wow! Really? It’s not possible to love me on the first day you set your eyes on me. I won’t fall for that crap. This guy didn’t even know me or have an idea of who I am. Seriously! That was a turned off for me, I never wanted to talk to him thereafter or pick his call. Would you like to know the funniest part of the story? Hummmmn, I can’t stop thinking of him but unfortunately, have deleted his number out of anger.

One beautiful Sunday morning, I stepped out of my car to bump into a tall, handsome man. The smell of his cologne made me look once more at him. You won’t believe what I saw! That young guy was my crush that I deleted his number. I just didn’t  know what to say to him, he looked at me and smiled. The young man didn’t say a word to me, he actually walked away but I waited to see where he was heading. I saw him enter into an apartment building; apparently, he is a resident there. Now, here is my question; what should I do? I have feelings for him now and I’m sure I do. I want him, but I dont know how to make it happen again. I’m not sure if it’s right for a lady to propose to a guy she loves πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ.....I just don’t know!!!”

Now to the house, what can she do or what do you think she did wrong? Let’s get Realwithkem

Friday, October 20, 2017

Sex LifeπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ

       “I never knew sex is important in a relationship. I have been starving my husband all this years of marriage. Also I guessed have been missing out on this great pleasure called ‘sex’. Wow! Hnmmmmm! I never knew individual's sex life can  suddenly change until it happened to me. 
You know!  Before now, all I ever felt whenever I have  sex was  pain. It is funny πŸ˜„, because I also believed sex is all about bearing children. Do you know something? Something strange is really happening to my system;  all of a sudden, I started having the urge for sex, always horny. Also, I never get satisfied when we make love, but I couldn’t tell him.  Guessed I have driven him away from me all this  years i have been a denier of sex. Believe me! This is serious, but I’m guessing maybe is due to my present age or hormonal changes (because I’m reaching menopause) or something in me is just awakened. I just don’t know what it is, all I know now is that I’m crazy about having sex now. Unfortunately, there is a big issue concerning my appetite for sex; I don’t know how to explain to my husband of 15 years in marriage  that my sex life has now changed. I don’t know what he will think of me.
I need your suggestions.”
Now to the house, I need you to please get Realwithkem and give the lady good suggestions. You can also send me messages if you do not want to be real on this forum.

Friday, October 13, 2017

Single ladies 😘

       “I am proud to be single because being single simple means being sophisticated, special, successful, strong, sweet and smart lady. 
It is always good to know you are a woman of your words and that is all being single is all about. I'll rather focus on the journey of life than to get distracted by people that want you for themselves. Life is what we made out of it. There is nothing actually named ‘problem’ until it's so labelled.  There is more to life than to force yourself to be loved.  Never get me wrong marriage is beautiful and same way being single is great because it will give you time to plan your life better and achieve your goals. 
Here is my reason for pouring out my mind, I never knew why Africans believe marriage is a do or die affair. Most women get married to satisfy their parents  or to have title- come on! Nothing is worth your happiness in life.  You deserve to rule your life just the way you want it. Is better to learn from your mistakes than to fall into others mistakes. Do you know why? If you make your mistakes, you can easily get back on track but if you fall into other people’s mistakes you can lose your track because is not your route. I wish ladies can just focus on their goals and happiness and then all other things will fall in place.”
Yeah! This is a single lady sharing her story, get Realwithkem and contribute fans!😜😜😜

Friday, October 6, 2017



        The best food you can feed  a relationship is to make your own decisions,then you will be able to deal with the outcome. Believe me, no one can give you the right medicine to sustain your relationship but you. You know why? Your friend loves you and she/he may not make a good judgement when it comes to your relationship just in the name of making you happy. Your family won’t want you to get hurt by anyone so they will always take your side if you let them know what you are going through with your partner. 
Here are somethings you can do to fix your relationship problems: You can talk to friends or family members you trusted but be very careful when narrating what happened between you and him/her. Do not give them the impression that you needed mercy or your partner is killing you. Just shift the blame on yourself at the beginning of narrating what happen between you and your partner. Then, listen to their responses and go stay calm to bring out what will work for you; remember to apply it  with patience and knowledge in order to get the best results. 
As you know, I value your contributions so just be Realwithkem!

Wrong Turn

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