Friday, December 22, 2017

A Home of Your Own


           “There are no seats nor comfortable bed to rest myself or relax my soul. I even looked around to see if I could found anything to put things together but I couldn’t. I could still remember it was  a walking path, I actually saw people stopping for a break but I realized it belongs to everyone. I took a deep breath just to clear my head and think 🤔. Yeah! I did a thorough thinking. Then I came to the conclusion that where I am presently is called a ‘place not a home.’ A place is a particular position or point in space, which means in a relationship, we can only build a foundation of love in our home not our place. There are relationships that are misinterpreted to be a home instead of a place. Mere seeing the relationship, you will just identify it to be a place because you won’t find anything that makes you feel comfortable or anyway you can put off your loads and take a rest. All you will see in a place relationship is just a space, empty but you will forever hear the word ‘I love you’ yeah!  That is easy to say. Believe me, no matter what you can do, you can never make a place a home in a relationship. On the other hand, a home is the place where one lives permanently, especially as a member of a family or household; For real, you will feel welcome in a homey  relationship. You will find a place to put your loads & packages. You will feel acceptable and valued and then you can decide if you want to build your  garden of love in your home. Do you know something? Never build a garden of love in place because it will be demolished by different people passing by and most importantly, it doesn’t belong to you.”
What do you think? Let’s get Realwithkem 

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