Friday, March 30, 2018

Just mine๐Ÿ˜˜❤️

              “He was backing me and I could view his wide shoulders. Unbelievable, I got lost just starring at him. He didn’t know I was starring while he was busy fixing the flowers ๐Ÿ’๐ŸŒบ he got me.  He would do that almost everyday. 
He is  real, handsome, and a gentleman ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜. He talks with passion. He tells me ‘your smile, put smile  on me and your sadness tear my heart apart.’ Hmmmmm, he is my world and I can’t afford to loose him. I want just me and him; no friends, no strange calls. I protect him jealously because I may not survive it if anything go wrong between us. Unfortunately, he said to me one day ‘the only problem I have with you is being too jealous.’ Yeah! He is right, that is the only thing we fight over. I can’t help it, I have to hold him tight because I love him.”

That’s true, if you love him and he is real, you better hold him tight. But, you don’t want to hold him down by just watching over him. It is good to tie your man down with these ropes as good personalities, your soul, satisfaction, pleasure and finally be his best friend and try to get along with each other. But please, don’t drop that jealousness completely because it is considered to be a spice ๐ŸŒถ in a relationship. We all need to watch over ourselves. We all have the potential to go astray if we have no laws or rules guiding us. 
Now to you! What do you think about keeping what you cherish most to yourself? Let’s get Realwithkem

Friday, March 23, 2018

My Babe ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

       “I just heard my name from afar ‘SHADY,’ wow! Can’t he just stop calling me by my name. For real I got upset whenever he called me by my name, I wished he could just call me sweet names. 
I don’t know about you but it sounds bad when your partner calls you like a maid.”

For real! Name is very important in our relationships . The names we call our lovers explain it all, because we portray what we call them. For instance, if you call your partner  ‘babe’ that just means you will cherish, care and adore him/her like your precious baby. Romantic names spicy up relationship. Women especially love to be called sweet names, it gives them sense of belonging; It is unbelievable that men also love to be called romantic names, the name makes them calm and do whatever their ladies want. Wait a minute! Do you think I’m wrong here? WHAT DO YOU CALL YOUR LOVER? Let’s get Realwithkem.

Friday, March 16, 2018

๐ŸŒนInnermost ๐ŸŒธFeelings๐ŸŒบ

        “I thought it was a dream when he opened the door and came right at me. His eyes were red and he was furious. I held him and asked him if he was okay. His voice was very loud and he said ‘I don’t think I can go any further with this relationship, things are not working out and I have to go.’ I said ‘ Do whatever pleases you. I can live without you. I’m sure I haven't done anything wrong.’  Then, he decided to walk away from all we have built together. I never knew he would do it but he did. He picked a few things and slammed the door on me. Wow! I thought I could handle it all by myself. I actually felt his absence and couldn't handle it. The love I have for him is deep within me. Oh my God! I never thought I truly loved him, I shouldn’t have let him go. 
The world is meaningless without that other part of me. This is not happening, maybe I need to wake up from my sleep. He made lots of promises to me. What could have gotten into him or me?”

When sh*t happens in a relationship, we think we can handle it all by ourselves but we lie. The one above all of us, watches us in silence and wanting us to call upon him. Lot of things that happens in our relationships are not war against flesh but inner self. Let’s drop that ego that says ‘Yeah! I can handle it’ and turn it to ‘Father take charge.’ Wait a minute! Why will you let him go if you really loved him? Know one thing! The wind of trouble in a relationship is always temporary, it can stop if you pause and take a deep breath then finally, let the Almighty Father take charge. What do you think?    Let’s get Realwithkem

Friday, March 9, 2018

Sweet words๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

    “I am his angel, he carries me with care and love. He tells me ‘Having you mean the whole world to me. I will forever cherish and adore you. I can’t do without touching this soft skin. Whispering into your ears give me excitement. You are my  gift of life. My soul will never depart from you. I promise to keep you in my heart now and after death.” His words always make me cry, because when he says it , he looks directly into my eyes and utter the words slowly. I truly love him too and all his assurance of love make me love him more because his words live in me. 
On this morning, as his normal routine, he told me he would be there for me  both in spirit and body; as he was about  going to his car, he stopped short, suddenly dropped on his knees. As  he did, he could not utter a word. I thought the rapture has come because I couldn’t see anything,.
All I could hear was an  imaginary voice  telling me he would  never depart from me. I thought  he just broke his promise because his eyes were closed. No! No love life should end this way I thought.  I need him! 
The Doctor said, he lost his voice. I see him laying in bed everyday but can't tell me how much he loves me  anymore. No arms to lift me up, I’m not even sure if he recognizes me. Do you know what? I tell him  those words he used to say to me. 
I did remind him what we have done together. 
I am still happy because he has fed me with his words when he has his voice, so that kept us alive. I will forever love him.”
One of the best thing in life is to enjoy life with the one you love. The good times you share with your lover give you reason to live long and stay happy. Sure! Quarrels do happen but get over it in a short time because you never know what might happen in the next second of our life. If you are blessed with the love of your life, appreciate, cherish and adore him/her so  you can have good memories to sustain both of you at old age. 
Here is my question; Do you think such love still exist or what do you think? Let’s get Realwithkem!

Saturday, March 3, 2018

Comfort in Love ๐Ÿ’

        “I’m just doing what I know best. I’m staying between her and the door. The closer I get to the door, the more thoughts are  rumbling in my head. Closing the door after me means a lot, is like cutting off the bond between us. The thought of walking away from her makes me feel I’m stepping into a lost world. I knew her for a long time but have no idea of who I may walk into next. Decision made in a second may ruin or safe a relationship. As I was about to take that first step into  the world outside: I felt destroyed empty, scared ;at the same, thinking I’m doing what is best for the relationship. Then I stared at her thinking  that would be  last time I would look her in the face.  
She  stood there looking helpless, holding herself tight and wanting to open her mouth. Then I got more confused because I didn’t know what she wanted to say; maybe ‘get out!’ or ‘please don’t leave me'. The strong bond between us pulled me closer to her but I was silent. I heard her sweet and shaky voice, she said ‘I’m sorry’. I thought that was an angel but no! She said it for the first time! I  have been waiting for that word to hold me back. Oh! I kissed her and I felt relieved. Seriously! I love her more ๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹.”
That is power of ‘Sorry.’ The word is just five letters word but very difficult to spit out and we have to pronounce it to make things right. Situation can be bad within a second and can always stay under control within that same second. It is unfortunate that no one want to say it at that time because is just not the right word at the time. Do you know what I think? Just say it to yourself silently first ‘yeah! Whatever I’m sorry’ then it will come easier on the second trial. Let’s safe the  love and bond we share with loved ones with just that egoistic word ‘SORRY.’  What do you think? 
Let’s get Realwithkem!

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