Saturday, June 30, 2018

Bondage of Love ❤️

      Is it really possible to be stuck in love? My answer will be yes. It's possible to truly have strong feelings for her/him. Her problem can be yours. Her joy gives you hope. Her smile tells you more about beautiful things on earth. Her attitude is always right to you. Her faults make you see things in a different way. She is just your heart’s desire. Unfortunately, all that feelings you have towards her/him may just be your wishes which you may not actually get from your lover and this can be reviewed by asking yourself if you are really happy with him/her. Your answer maybe ‘No’. However, you have a strong feeling for her which makes you stuck in the relationship. This kind of situation can always be fixed. First; you have to be sure he/she cares about you. Then you can work on him loving you which may give you the happiness you hope for. Secondly; Try to find out what makes you unhappy in the relationship which I’m sure the fingers will be pointing to your partner 😜. Keep something at the back of your mind, you can’t change him but you can change yourself to live with him/her in order to be happy and if you try putting too much effort in changing your partner; you may end up changing who you are originally. You can persuade with love and make him/her understand why you both most compromise in the relationship. Let her know what you feel for her and how being with her will fetch both happiness. Lastly, Love is a game that can be played by a smart, patient, calm, honest, fast thinker, focused person and achiever. The good thing about game of love is, it can only be won by the player that finished the 
game. What do you think? Let’s get Realwithkem!

Friday, June 22, 2018

Step of Love

     I understand endurance in a relationship but not sacrificing happiness for relationship. Being in love should add value to life not to take valuable things away from life. Even our Lord Jesus Christ left where he was born to another place in other to perform wonders. Jesus Christ did that because he wasn’t accepted in his own home but he didn’t stay there and settle . Jesus knew if he did  he would  be stuck one place and would  not have been be able to go where he was needed. He put sentiment away and took a step by leaving his own home to another place where the name of the Lord was glorified. 
Some people  are stuck in unfruitful relationship due to sentiments, fear of unknown, fear of falling, and  not believing in God’s plan. No one can succeed without falling. It is better to fall at a younger age than to be crippled in an old age; because you can easily get help when you are young and beautiful but unllikely if anyone will stay with a cripple woman/man all life-long . Everyone gets his/her life to live. Being in a relationship should not be about ourselves, it should be about how both partners can make changes to the world, how both partners can touch others people’s life. Is good to think about the plan of  God for us and how it can be fulfilled without being sentimental.
What do you think? Let’s get Realwithkem

Saturday, June 9, 2018


           The warmth of my babe could heal my wound. His hands gently rubbing on my back and feeling my laps could filled my soul with joy. Especially the soft kisses of a loved one could take away the pain of heartbreakers. Feeling his skin on me could just make me feel like a woman. Do you know what? I’m starving from all this I have stated. I love him and he loves me more but I can’t just bear this anymore. I am a cat when it comes to my man but he won’t let me feel him. I asked him, he responded ‘You know I love you, and is in the heart not by you touching me or rubbing on me’ Wow! Really! What happened to intimacy in a relationship? Then he said ‘You know I  have been by myself for some time now so, is not easy’ Oh my goodness! I don’t know what to do because my admirers kept calling my number and  sending me lovely text messages. You won’t even believe it that my ex-boyfriend never stopped telling me how he can take me to another level in bed and for real he was good when I was with him. I think I’m about to make another decision because I can’t sacrifice my happiness for anyone or what do you think?
  For real! We lie on devil or outsiders but the problem and solution are within us. We create our problems and is certain that we have the solution. There is power of love all over us which we are supposed to use for our lovers. Your hands should be a love machine all over your lover and your words should be the key to open your lover’s heart then you can get in with your soul, body and your lips. Let’s use what we have to keep our relationships because life is just too short, let’s enjoy our loved ones. What do you think? Let’s get Realwithkem!

Saturday, June 2, 2018

Decision of Love

       “I can’t just wait to see my love, the one that owns my soul, the only one that I will spend my life with. Being away from him is like leaving a  part of me somewhere. I have missed him so much that thinking of him turned me on 😜. I am sure he can’t wait to see me too because I told him I  have been waiting for him and keeping myself clean just for my sunshine. I can’t  just wait to have the sexy night of my life, yeah! It will be hot😜😜😜. 
Good thing, the flight didn’t take long, but I couldn’t sleep in the plane, just thinking of my babe, my love, my sweetheart. Do you know what? He was happy to see me, I couldn’t just stop kissing him. He grabbed me really tight, wow! I felt secured and loved. Wow! I had a good shower and now bed time 🙈😜. My babe is good in bed, I’m telling you. I made him happy by doing what I know best in bed but the unfortunate part was that, my man called me another girl’s name. Seriously! I was turned off, really! Oh Men! Yeah! WHAT SHOULD I DO HERE? I AM IN A DILEMMA.”
   Help the poor lady out people. What can she do? Let’s just get REALWITHKEM.

Wrong Turn

      Each step forward gives me hope, assurance, and something to live for. Unfortunately, it is difficult to keep taking the steps. I ca...