Sunday, July 22, 2018

Storm ⛈ ☔️ ⛈⛈⛈


    “ I felt myself sink into a state of ease and I certainly knew what was coming next. I could sense it nearing and it was scary. It was a dark evening and I could hear my heartbeat because I was all alone. Thunder rumbled in the distance and a bolt of lightning cracked the midnight blue sky into two. I am sure the rain was promised because the wind has already unleashed. My legs have been stiffed with fear of drowning. I could still feel the coldness despite the big comforter that was wrapped around me. That’s it! It is just the end. Now I started to think of how much I gave my life to him but he let me down. All promises went in vain. I couldn’t phantom what happened to our ship ๐Ÿšข in the relationship because it will definitely sink into this coming storm. I worked hard for the survival of this relationship. I let go some opportunities that would have saved me from this calamity instead I gave all my love to him and focused just on him. Now I can see myself perishing with this storm because I wasn’t prepared. Oh no! I thought it is a good thing to be in love but what about  the unknown monster ahead of love. I couldn’t bring myself to cry because my spirit is dead already. It is really sad and disheartening๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ to experience the other side of love this way.”

I will be writing on this article next week๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐ŸฝGet Realwithkem๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

Saturday, July 14, 2018

Spoilt brat lover part 2


              It is never a crime to love but it can be a crime when the love is taken for granted. It is easy to spoil your lover owing  to the love you have for him but remember your children maybe at risk of what you call pleasure. Doing everything for your partner won’t give him/her the opportunity  to express his own feelings towards you. You just have to give him room  to prove to you if he really loves you. You can only examine him/her while your eyes are  opened and your brain at work to figure out the puzzles. Yeah! Relationship is a puzzle and you may be lost while trying to put the puzzles together. So! You have to learn how to reason without being sentimental and how to see things beyond the present, finally learn how to handle things maturely. Relationship is not only about the pleasure at the moment because anyone can offer you the pleasure; relationship is about taking charge and building your own world. Now, you found yourself in the hand of a spoilt brat lover; how can you get out of the relationship? Believe me, it is never easy to get out because he will always tell you how much he loves you and how he can do anything for you. Your spoilt brat lover is saying all this for  what he is getting from you at that moment. Remember! For every action, there must be a reaction so what will you expect from him than to make you believe he deserves you. Oh girl! You need a man that can take charge, a man that can lift you up when you are down. Women already have their hands full with their children than to take another burden of nursing a spoilt brats. For real, a spoilt brat lover will eventually leave you for another woman. Easy way to get out, pretend he doesn’t exist and move
 on. Another way, do it for your children, teach 
your male child how to take care of a woman. Let’s build the world from our home so it goes around. Keeping a spoilt brat lover can ruin a whole generation. Let me rest my pen here๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ. What do you think? Let’s get Realwithkem๐Ÿ˜˜

Saturday, July 7, 2018

Spoilt Brat lover

           I don’t think it is a crime to love and care for the love of your life. I want you to pay attention to my story and pick out my wrongs.
  I waited for my Mr Right to come to me. I finally met him and I love him with my whole heart. He is handsome , he is everything I wanted in a man. I never knew we can get along due to differences in our  ethnicity  but we do. I even changed my name to his last name and it is funny how people looked at me with a surprise whenever they heard my last name. I spoiled Akeem, I try to do everything for him to be happy. 
Here is the problem, I am not sure if he loves me as I love him. Akeem would  leave the house for a week without contacting me and the children.  When he returns, he usually asks for forgiveness. Akeem can’t even do any hard work than a short cut to make money and  then party with it. He almost ruined my entire life with the last stupid thing he did. He messed up my account and left me with zero balance . It  was hard to feed my children as a result . Tough to survive. I nearly got fired at work due to my emotional breakdown.  Needless to say my job is the only way I know to feed the entire family, him included. The painful part of it is that, he has not returned home for five days now. He didn’t call or pick my calls. It is  painful when you love with your soul and you are not getting it back. Now my children are feeling the consequences of his behavior.  I still can’t understand why I love him this much because he is hurting me. I can’t even do without him, I am helpless and stuck. I am sure he will be back after spending all the money to ask for forgiveness as usual. I don’t know why life is unfair. I waited for a long time before meeting Akeem and we have been together for 10 years and he is still acting like a baby. He refused to grow up. I never bothered how he goes around with girls and ........ I just don’t know. I am really sad and I don’t know what to do.
     What do you think about the woman true life story? Next week! I will write my opinion on this case. Let’s get Realwithkem๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

Wrong Turn

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