Friday, September 28, 2018

Weak Bond


       Life can throw something at you at any time. All you need to do is to hang on to that thing and examine it critically. Ask yourself why you are a target with such a thing at that time. Also, ask yourself what life wants you to make out of it. Finally,  be ready to move on to the next chapter in your life. 
     Love can make you do anything for whom you love. Only love can make you hurt yourself without knowing it because you are aiming at making her/him happy then  lose focus on yourself. A lover can pass through wolves and snakes just to reach the gold to beautify his/her relationship. Here is an unfortunate situation that can happen after attaining the gold; the bond of love between him and his lover may be weakened at the time.Then the stress of trying to please her may not be worthy of it anymore. Also, the lover at the receiving end may not even value the gold brought anymore instead, she will see it as a compensation. Another thing is, the lover on a receiving side can see your returns to the relationship as an opportunity to make your life miserable whereas you did all you did just because of her.  For Real! The problem may have built up from the fact of not carrying her/him along in your search or struggle. 
     In life, don't do things because you just love doing it but do things because it is necessary and won't make an unbearable impact on you. No time should be wasted in life because every second of our lives count.
What do you think? Let's get Realwithkem❤️

Saturday, September 15, 2018

Friday, September 7, 2018

Endless Love ❤️

         It is possible to be deceived by the shadow of an image that our heart desires. Then we decide to build love on the fake image with the assumption of being in love. It will eventually lead to heartbreak. 
Do you know something? In most cases we develop interest in  wrong places and sow seed of love in infertile soil. Your dream partner may not be your lover and if you go for it, you may become his/her horse to ride. All humans have the tendency to take advantage of one another. 
I have a suggestion-  that  we thread with carefulness  when we love. You just have to slow down to observe if the thread of love binds you both or you are just making effort to knit it together. For real! Your true love may be passing by you while  trying to make the fake shadow work. Having a mind set of how your partner should look like could drag you into endless search for  love . I used the word ‘endless" because you will keep trying to make him/her love you in return for your love  but instead, he/she will continue to take advantage of you until the whole search for  love turns to hate which apparently  will be the end of the relationship. Let’s get Realwithkem 😘

Wrong Turn

      Each step forward gives me hope, assurance, and something to live for. Unfortunately, it is difficult to keep taking the steps. I ca...