It is possible to be deceived by the shadow of an image that our heart desires. Then we decide to build love on the fake image with the assumption of being in love. It will eventually lead to heartbreak.
Do you know something? In most cases we develop interest in wrong places and sow seed of love in infertile soil. Your dream partner may not be your lover and if you go for it, you may become his/her horse to ride. All humans have the tendency to take advantage of one another.
I have a suggestion- that we thread with carefulness when we love. You just have to slow down to observe if the thread of love binds you both or you are just making effort to knit it together. For real! Your true love may be passing by you while trying to make the fake shadow work. Having a mind set of how your partner should look like could drag you into endless search for love . I used the word ‘endless" because you will keep trying to make him/her love you in return for your love but instead, he/she will continue to take advantage of you until the whole search for love turns to hate which apparently will be the end of the relationship. Let’s get Realwithkem 😘