Saturday, December 7, 2019

Wrong Turn

      Each step forward gives me hope, assurance, and something to live for. Unfortunately, it is difficult to keep taking the steps. I can still hear it loud and clear that I was the most beautiful lady, a woman with the power to get what she wants. I used to like freedom which was my favorite lifestyle. Fine! I never had any goals then, but I was happy I could meet up with my immediate needs. 
I feel going forward has too many rules to get to the destination but my past has no rules, I just do whatever I want. I feel like turning back to finish up some businesses 😳
          Yeah! Our past is the terror that terrifies our future and the only weapons to conquer it are love, determination, built-in strength, and strong will. Moving forward should always be our goal ; never turn into your past because it will eventually swallow you up. Those friends you left in your past will always want you again in the name of love. That life with no rules will always occur to you. A step back into your past can be 20 steps away from your future. For real! Those friends you left in the past already picked up another set of friends but won't want to send you off when you return back to them. So, a step into the past will cause you a lot than what you can regain towards the future. Finally, be focused and see what the future has in store for you. Also, never blame yourself for the decisions you  made in the past, earn some courage to make better decisions in the future.   

Saturday, November 16, 2019

Love Medication

     One of my favorite games is dice rolling. Do you know why? When you about to roll your dice, you will have mixed feelings; the excitement of you winning and anxiety of you losing the game but either way, you will roll out the dice and deal with the outcome. Now let's put the dice rolling and relationship together. When you are about to propose to her, I bet you can’t wait for her to accept your proposal then later when you are alone, you will get that perception of ”wow"! She accepted. "What if things didn't work out as  planned”? Yeah!  Relationship is a game of winning, losing or just hanging-in till you exit from the game in any form. Good luck if you win but check if she is also winning πŸ˜‰. Are you hanging in or losing? You are the only person that can decide for you. An outsider will never get it right, you have to make your smart choice. Think about the beginning of the relationship, the present and where the relationship could end; then you can now make your decision on what to do. Just make sure you are not sentimental with your accusations, write out your wrongs and rights then check if your wrongs caused the calamities in the relationship. If it did, make corrections if you can because no one is perfect. Just be sure you put in your best to fix it and if your best doesn't work, see if you have paid enough for your wrongs; because sometimes, some partner will want you to pay for your wrongs. You should do all this in order to have peace within yourself in case you decided to quit. Finally, never let anyone make decisions for you concerning your love life, you can listen to people’s advice and suggestions then put what works for you together because you will be the only one to deal with your decision-making.     

Saturday, October 26, 2019

Sowing Seeds

     Digging a hole may seem like fun and also can be difficult especially if the soil is not a friendly kind. Then we put seeds in the hole and face the commitment part which is watering the seeds for better growth. Yep! The most exciting part is the harvesting period. Let's be Realwithkem here, all this illustration applies to a relationship. You can only harvest what you planted. Love is commitment and sacrifice. Forget about what you want to gain from the relationship but work on what you want to put in the relationship then you get a good fortune in return. Never let your relationship shape you but you shape your relationship to what you want then it will give you peace at last. Let your goals be what you want to do for her/him for a better tomorrow and wait to see if the good wishes won't come back to you. Even if the relationship eventually collapsed, you will reap your good deeds in another relationship because you have trained yourself  to be a good seed sower in a relationship. Take these tips; You can only sow seeds with patience, commitment, tolerance, and unconditional love. Finally, learn to close your eyes to some little things that may want to distract you when sowing your seeds in your relationship so you can achieve your aims. Always get Realwithkem!

Saturday, October 12, 2019

My Artistic Love

     You are right if you think men like hot ladies with beautiful nice boobs and shape. Do you think men want more in their women than how they look? Yes! Most men prefer  women with natural beauty and looking sexy. 
It is a good idea for a woman to get herself sexy wears and take care of her natural beauty. Yeah! Men want to open up to their women without being judged😊 All you have to do as a woman is to be a good listener. A man's beauty lies in his purposes of life. He likes a partner that plans future with him, sharing kind of the same longterm goals with him. Don't get me wrong! A woman does not have to put her own goal under the rug because, men like women with dreams and goals, she just needs to have an interest in her partner’s goals. For real! Men like  smart women that do not put all their energy into something unproductive. Compatibility is very important in a relationship, as such men prefer women not struggling to hold relationships together; want to be comfortable  around them. 
More importantly, men like their women to have good vibes as in, being straight up, cheerful, honest, being in good mood, lovely but not possessive. Finally, men like their women to be their prostitute when it comes to sex, as in, do him as if you will get paid for itπŸ˜³πŸ‘ˆπŸ½ 
Always get Realwithkem.

Saturday, September 28, 2019

Real Man’s Joy

  Men have good intentions when it comes to pleasing their women in bed. It is just unfortunate women sometimes complain of pain during sexual activities. Some men even get a turn-on when their women give sound or show some signs of pleasure during sex. Men want to look like the Savior of sex, they like to be praised that they do a great job with their women. All this makes the men overdo it😳😳. My dear men, try these tips to please your women; always start with foreplay and don't scare your woman with your d**k. Let her know it's meant to give her pleasure not to beat her up. Men’s fingers are strong so when you touch your woman with either your tongue or fingers make it look as if you are moving a feather over her body, making it light and slow because women's body is not as strong as yours. Remember not to push down with your finger or shove it up anywhere. Do not rub or jab or poke anything at all.

It takes a while  to get women's body to arouse, so foreplay her with the feather-light touch then she will come closer to you for more. Here are some erogenous zones to explore with your mouth and fingers on women; Clit( very gentle tongue-touched ), flip her over and feather-light kiss her back, knees, feet, elbow. Wait a minute! Always remember to slow down your breathing, don't breath too loud, calm down and work as if you are hired to give her sexual pleasure. Play with her body and listen to her moves then she will always come back to you and make you her number one. Lastly! Go slow when you are in her and always ask her if she is okayπŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰ Always get Realwithkem.

Friday, September 6, 2019

Regrets of unsaid Feelings

        ”No one can handle you with care as I do and no one can give you the assurance of future the way I do. Your love seems like a mansion that was patiently built and beautified with everything that gives joy on earth. Do you really know how I feel when I set my eyes on you? Your voice always turns me on babe. My phone can't ring without viewing your angelica smile. I never want you to leave me for a second. But it seems you are leaving me forever, no! Don't do this please, don’t demolish the constructed mansion of love we built. I may be stupid not to show you how much you meant to me. I thought you could see it in my eyes. I never thought of telling you ’I love you’ in a way you want to hear it. Oh no! I can't just handle this situation babe. I need a second chance”
When you really love your partner, your life is not only yours but for both of you. It is not about how you think you should express the love but you find out from her how she wants to be loved. The words you say may mean a lot to your lover. Tell her/him what you feel. Cherish her to her face not behind her back. Hold her tight as if it will be the last chance to get closer to her. Finally, communication plays a huge role on how to love him.
Always get Realwithkem.

Saturday, August 17, 2019

Power of understanding


”Baby go slow when you get into me, also go easy when you suck on my breast.” Lovers should be able to tell themselves how they want to be treated. That doesn't mean you are an habitual complainer, but just wanting him/her to get to know you. This brings us to know what we want in a relationship. First, you need to find yourself and know what you want from a relationship. Second, you learn to know your partner and identify her needs if you truly love her. If you really want to get what you want in a relationship then you have to give what you have to meet your partner’s needs. Most relationships want love, security, and trust. Love comes from the affection you have for each other. Security comes from understanding yourself and your partner then you can give the security she wants. Trust will definitely build itself if the other two (love and security ) are in place. It is very important for partners to be able to speak up and let your partner know how you want it. 
Always get Realwithkem.

Saturday, July 20, 2019

Will You Be There?

            I believe you when you tell me you do love me. Yeah! I feel comfortable resting my head on your chest, and your hands moving gently over my skin. Your sweet voice saying to me ’I will always be there Babe! Look into my eyes and let's get emotionally connected. Can I see with your eyes when mine are not right"? 
The words ’I will be there’ means you will be able to hold me tight whenever we have a storm. What will you do when our enemies try to break us? Will you be prepared when they tell you I'm a wrong person and will you let them know I'm wrong to them so I can be your right? Babe! As you know, our love is ordained from heaven and it will definitely attract intruders. Can you handle it when the whole world comes against me? My sweetheart! Be free to hold me tight against my wish and never let go if that is the only way to keep me away from the wolves. Remember! Since that day I made the declaration to be yours, I live in you and you in me. I choose you before my family and friends, so remember your promise to be there when I need you, my love. Always get Realwithkem!


Saturday, July 6, 2019

Why should I Love U Less?

      Despite  living in each other's heart and I holding you to myself, I still can't have enough of you. No matter how hard I try to love you less, you always leave me with a feeling that can't just seem to die. A minute of your absence seems like an hour. The only words that echo in my brain and mind are your voices. Thinking of you alone gives me assurance of a better future. Each time I push you a foot away, you pull yourself back closer  than ever before. You always give me a reason to hold you closer and look into your eyes to read unspoken love you have for me. The closer I look at you the more I see the feelings written all over you. Our arguments session always seem like two warriors on a battlefield but the love I have for you always bring me to submission and realization that I am part of you and I have to compromise for things to straighten out. Despite how tough and strong you are, you still leave me a  soft part in your heart that makes me keep falling in love with you. You also give me reasons  I should want you in this life and life after. You never see what I do wrong, instead you see what you want me to do better. My dearest soulmate, if I have the chance to negotiate with our creator, I will request for a reservation of you and I will pay all my dues just to have you. Thanks for the gift of love. Always. Get Realwithkem 


Friday, June 21, 2019

Seeking For Love

I wanted to be loved so bad when I was a teenager but I couldn't find  love. I always stayed depressed in my little room and wondering why the root of a plant you trusted will not be able to grow the good seed that can give you joy. There is always a certain period in a teenagers' life that they wanted to be loved. My heart is always occupied with sadness, and I kept asking myself what have I done wrong. I am a devoted worshipper but I knew I was missing something. After high school, I decided to have a man in my life, with the belief of getting what I was missing. He was more mature and I was looking forward to learning from him. My parents were not in support of the relationship but I was desperate for love. I was excited to move in with my man despite my parents not supporting the idea. I could still remember him teaching me how to cook and telling me how to do things. I guessed he got tired of babysitting a wife at some point. It was only three months of our togetherness and the table turned around. The love field then turned to a battle one. A wife started getting treated like a girl. It wasn't a good experience. There was a day he went to work and I thought of him returning back home then I was worried and restless. I was so scared that my so-called husband will be home in a few minutes, then I started cleaning the house, dusting everywhere. I was just confused because I didn't know what he would complain about. He came in from work, I greeted him and offered him food. Unfortunately for me, he said I didn't do a good job putting his clothes away, then the situation went bad. I could not return to my parents and I couldn't narrate my terrible experience to them. I kept mute and enduring. The abuse was getting too much and unbearable but I decided to stay  because I thought opting out at that point in time will only worsen my situation. Life seemed like hell to me. A wife turned to a slave, the heart that supposed to be occupied with love was full of fear. I later got out but it was too late. It was also unfortunate that I was still desperately seeking for love even after I left him and I kept getting into wrong relationships. Life can throw  you around sometimes, but is always good to explore and study the part  life throws at you because it will be useful for the rest of the journey.

That is a true life story of a lady seeking for love. This is my take on this situation; Parents are supposed to show their children how to be loved because if they don't, the children will get it somewhere else which may be disastrous.  Generally, it is a good idea to calmly seek for love because if you feel like shopping 

desperately, you will surely buy what you do not need which can build up to be a monster in your life. Individual desperately seeking for love never think straight, their judgment has already been altered because they think people don't love them so they take an act like kindness for love. This is the trick, your brain and mind make you miss what you do not have. It is simple mathematics if you keep telling your brain that you are lacking something then your brain will process it and interpret it that you are really missing that thing. So, try to play with your brain and mind. Don't get me wrong, you can seek for love but never get desperate because if you do, you will rush out just the same way you rushed into the relationship. Take care of yourself and invest in yourself for the right person. If you want true love, do not seek desperately. Take your time building yourself to be able to accommodate the upcoming lover. Let me rest my pen here😜. Always be Realwithkem.

Saturday, June 1, 2019

Guilt Of Love

   He said to me ’I will use the last drop of my blood to put a smile on you, if that is what it takes to give you happiness.’ He touches me with care and moves his hands on me with passion. He stares at me like a woman holding her newborn baby. I got the feeling of a goddess when he makes love to me. I say to myself ’what is this? I don't know! Can I admit I'm lucky to be shown love this way or nervous.’ For real! My husband is a good looking gentleman. His words are fascinating and engaging. You will always want to hear more of him. 
I was happy with my marriage and I was in love with this man. 
It was a sunny morning, I was putting on my nightwear my man bought me. I called him to make me a cup of tea as he usually did but there was no response. I looked around the apartment he was not there. He never did that. The last time we had an argument was four years ago, so I was pretty sure I didn't do anything wrong. "Where is my love"? I asked myself. I felt part of me was already missing. I could not sit or stand. I was getting a mixed feelings and I could hear my heartbeat beating really fast. Okay! I calmed myself down. I walked with fear towards the window to look out for his car, maybe he was out to get me a cup of coffee. I waited and waited but he didn't show up. Then, I sensed sadness and tribulation. I said to myself ‘I can't take this. I don't know what happened to my joy.’ Then my phone rang, the caller said ’ is this Ms cook?’ 
I said ’yesssss’ then I couldn't feel my legs, I was reluctant to respond to her next question.
She said ’Your husband is in our facility, he had a nervous breakdown. We need you to come....’ That was the last thing I could remember. I was admitted to a nearby hospital. I requested to see my husband when I finally gained consciousness. I was taken to him, I walked towards him with guilt and fear. I sat down beside him and I held his hands. He was fine for that moment and he looked straight into my eyes and smiled. That was the last chapter of my husband’s life. He gave up on me and I gave up on myself. I pushed him too hard. I never thought of giving him happiness, now I could feel the guilt eating me up. It is sad😭 

This is to all lovers out there! Never think is all about you, it is also about your partner. Stop asking without giving. Stop being selfish, love is not what you get but what you give. If you don’t love him, let him go. Don't task him to pay for your lost. Don't ride him to your destination but give him reasons why he should take you to your destination. Love him but Don't lame him. The game of love should be a tied score not one sided. For Real! Always get Realwithkem.

Saturday, May 4, 2019

How To Quit A Toxic Relationship

        Quitting a relationship is the same as breaking a strong mold you crafted. The tools used in making the crafted strong mold will always play roles in how the pieces will be pulled apart. 
If you break a strong mold with the right tools, hit at the right place, and with the right forces, it will just be demolished without using a lot of strength and without exploding to hurt the breaker and people around the mold. 
You have to be ready in order to quit a toxic relationship. First, you make up your mind because there must not be no turning back. Unfinished business in a relationship can ruin an upcoming relationship. Then, you really have to have some tools with you. The tools are; confidence, boldness, strength, and a backup. Make sure you can survive  both physically and emotionally without your partner. If not you have to train yourself to be able to do that first. Then apply wisdom with every move you decided to make during the separation. Make sure to part in peace and you can achieve this by being tough and strict and being a good-hearted person. That's it! Make sure you know what you want before making a move in life. Keep getting Realwithkem 😘😘

Saturday, April 20, 2019

Continuation of Toxic Relationship

    It is always easy to get into any relationship but difficult to opt out especially when it is a toxic relationship. Why is it always difficult to get out of a toxic relationship? Here are the answers; each milestone in a relationship takes space in your heart. Also, the brain adapts easily, so your brain would have learned how to adapt to that bad relationship. Furthermore, you have accepted and see yourself as a failure that your partner says you are. Lastly, you are scared of the unknown. I will write on each reason why it is  difficult to opt out of a toxic relationship. So Fans, watch outπŸ‘ˆπŸ½πŸ‘ˆπŸ½πŸ‘ˆπŸ½πŸ‘ˆπŸ½πŸ‘ˆπŸ½ for the next write-up. Always stick with Realwithkem 😘

Saturday, April 6, 2019

Toxic Relationship

           I couldn't have any space in my heart for anything else, everything belongs to her. I water her like a rose and adore her like a god. Loving her is everything I have ever dreamt about. Looking at her eyes gives me this unexplained feeling. My heart fills with joy, happiness, and hope. Yeah! You read it right ’HOPE.’ How I wish I have it all, I'm still missing something. I looked at all the crannies of my heart but I couldn't find it and that is eating up the love I have for her. I understand I can't have it all but sometimes, the lacking aspect can be unbearable. Before I met her, everything was rosy for me and I think I'm capable of picking a wife which I did. I embraced her with love, I made her have everything she wanted. She made me know everything about lady's things because she is used to wearing the most expensive things. She is very romantic, especially when she makes me feel good with her tongue, she is just irresistible when it comes to that. I used to think maybe God tutored her on how to use her tongue for a pleasurable moment like the one she gives me. After two years of marriage, I noticed I'm not that buoyant financially as I used to be. That was the beginning of our problem. If you remember I stated I was lacking something in my relationship; that thing is ’understanding’ my woman never understands. I shared my story with Realwithkem, let's read from her.

Sometimes, people get into a relationship to compensate for what they are lacking which makes the love conditional. These set of people will love their partners as long they are still meeting up their needs and this is a freeway to a toxic relationship. For real, I used the word ’toxic’ because the relationship will definitely explode by the time you stop what is holding the marriage together and when it does it will be harmful and disastrous. How do you know if a relationship is toxic? Good! This is when your partner will not even plan a future with you, she will never discuss how to be successful with you. She won't have any long term goals for both of you, instead, she want to take from you to fill in what she is lacking then you know you are in a toxic relationship.
I will rest my pen here. Watch out for Next write up on how to get out of Toxic Relationship. Continue to get Realwithkem

Saturday, March 23, 2019

How did I get Here?❤️❤️

” It seemed dark but  I could still see by straining my eyes. I could also hear myself talk. I wasn't  sure if my mind was at peace or in pieces. I wasn't  supposed to be alone but it appeared I was by myself. I tried stretching out my arms but I couldn't, I wanted to run, it was not possible; Then, I knew I was stuck in a box. How did I get here? Seeing her pictures, I could still remember I loved her. I decided to do everything to make her mine. I showered her with love and affection. I let her had a way in the relationship. I thought I was enjoying all that love game but I never knew I was making a box to be locked in. She played along until I got myself locked-in. Then she backed off. How can I free myself from the box of love?”

It can be frustrating to be locked up somewhere but the power to be free is within you. First, think of how you get there; In most cases, we get to a wrong place through the weakest aspect of our life. You need to strengthen that weakest aspect of your life before thinking of setting yourself free. Secondly, you can't set yourself free all alone, you need a backup; for real! And you  have to be careful who you choose for your backup. 
Lastly, make sure you are ready for the setting free battle because there must be no turning back after  starting it, which means, you must finish it or else the battle will finish you. Let's always be Realwithkem

Saturday, March 9, 2019

Memories of Love πŸ’•

     It was difficult to believe she has lived on this planet for 78 years. Her smile added to her beauty. I only said ’Hi’;  pay attention to what she said ”Hi, I had a good life. He took me everywhere we never left each other. He treated me like a queen. He loved me dearly. I had a good life. He made my life worth living and I was happy to be his wife.” I asked her ’Do you have his pictures?’ She said, ”No, I don't.” I asked her ’what is his name?’ Then, she smiled and started brainstorming, she said ”I forgot my husband’s name.” For real! I was touched. Yeah! I was really emotional after I heard the woman’s love life story. The old lady has an Alzheimer disease which  causes memory loss. The disease makes her forget her husband's name but the Alzheimer disease never eat up the good memory she built with her husband. The memory lives in her forever. 
  As we age, we neglect material things, we never care about the latest outfits or the ongoing party around us but we live in our memories. Here is my question; what memory do you want to live in as you age? Here is a take-home; it is advisable to live a good life with loved ones, enjoy your love life.  Don't keep bad memories like arguing always, quarrelling all the time, nagging, complaining. Do you know something? A relationship is like a wrapped gift that you never knew what you are getting until you unwrap it. Believe it or not, whatever you see from the wrapping package is what you get. So, you either stop complaining and learn how to adjust to your new gift which is your relationship or you do a rethink at the appropriate/suitable time. Make life meaningful and enjoy it. This applies to My gorgeous living singles, you can create your interesting and unforgettable memories for yourself. Make good friends and enjoy your freedom of being single.
What do you think? Let's always get Realwithkem!

Saturday, February 23, 2019

Unbearable Pain of Love❤️

  I never knew a heart can be chopped into  pieces until I felt mine bleeding. I could feel the internal pain of love. I couldn't think straight nor delete any of our memories. The world felt so cold, everywhere seemed dark. I could feel my emptiness. I could feel blood running through my spines. Everything was just wrong. 
Now I know why all this words are four letters; Love, Hate, Pain. Yeah! The pain of love is just unbearable. I asked if he loved me and he said yes. I thought I got it but I was wrong. Yeah! How can a humanbeing be heartless? I can still hear the voice in my ears saying; ’Babe, I thought I love you but I searched my mind, I couldn't find your love in my heart.’ Oh my God! I was shocked, I was dead with my eyes  open. I couldn't say a word. God! What have I done wrong or where have I gone wrong? 
I am truly a good person. Then I opened up to Realwithkem, this is what she says;
’The origin of love is about learning how to love yourself first before loving someone else. You can't give what you do not have. Check your heart and be sure you have enough love for yourself before taking a ride for love. Make yourself someone anyone can spend the rest of his/her life with, not you searching for someone to spend your life with. Make sure you are adding value to yourself every day. The only thing you can control in life is you. Not him/her. The only human being you know is you.  Not him/her. Make yourself an investor, not the business to be invested in. Practicing all this will make you strong and prepared for any storm in a relationship. Do not get me wrong, you will definitely be hit with the storm when it comes but the built-in love you have for yourself will sustain you during and after the storm. Your investment will put you back in shape to be prepared for any incoming love. Hint! Never give up on love, you can't live all by yourself; you need someone to lean on. Just never be too desperate seeking for love, focus on yourself and stay open to welcome incoming love😜.’
Always Get Realwithkem 😘

Saturday, February 9, 2019


  πŸ•ΊπŸ‘« I am excited because it is a Valentine season and my man promised to Put a smile on me. For Real Fans! He wants me to tell him anything that will make me happy. HmmmmπŸ€”. Then I thought of this question which I will like great contributions from you all.
Can a man please his woman? Let's get Realwithkem and make this fun😜😜😜

Saturday, January 26, 2019

How to handle a Crush part 2

            You may be happily married and still have crush over him/her😜. For real! It is not a big deal. Here are some tips if you don't want to; 
If you can avoid seeing that person please do. If it is someone you cannot avoid owing to the job-related circumstance, then always act normal when you are with him/her by taking a deep breath. You can also get yourself busy with what you love doing in order to take your mind off your crush. You can also get a journal, write your feelings down and also write why your dream concerning your crush can't be possible. For instance, he may be short/too tall, he may be poor/ too rich for you. Finally, keep telling your brain not to think about it because you do not want to get into such mess. For real! It can be a mess up. The good news is that you can control your mind and brain. The word ’Love’ is not reality in itself but we make it real,  so you can wish it off. Your eyes communicate with your brain what they see and your mind tells your brain that is your crush then your brain program it and keep working on it on your behalf. Unless you really want to have a flingπŸ™ˆ, Yeah! I Don't know about that 🀷‍♀, you are old enough to do what you are capable of and to be ready for the consequences if there is any. 
Fan! Always get Realwithkem😘😘

Saturday, January 19, 2019

How to handle a Crush part 1πŸ˜”

  The feel of a crush can either be  positive or negative. It can also be exciting because you feel happy when you are around the person. Thinking of your crush can make you smile and breathe in fresh air. You look forward to giving him a lovely smile with a sexy body language. For real! A crush can also be terrifying. It can be a battle within you which may be due to you being married, engaged or your crush being in  a relationship 😳. 
Few things are involved in this crush situation. First, search your heart to find out why you are having a crush over this person. You may be having a crush due to your bad relationship, you may be single or maybe he/she is cute😜. If the crush is due to being in a bad relationship  then you need to get out from the bad relationship first because it is simply called unfinished business which can put both of you in a mess. You can now search your heart to see if you are still having the same feelings towards this person after getting out of the bad relationship and if you still feel the same, then go for itπŸ™ˆ. Yeah! Turn your flirt on and make the first move if you can. For real! If you really want something you go for it. Here are steps to get his/her attention. First, make your feelings known to him/her by mimicking his body language whenever you are in a conversation. For instance, if he leans on a wall just do the same thing with a smile and make eyes contact. But remember not to act desperately and don't try too hard. You may be lucky to catch him/her😜. If he/she doesn't want you, it's okay, at least you
 tried. Just move on and get over it. There are lots of crushes out there for you. Just keep working on your self and never stop adding values to yourself. ( Watch out!!! For part 2!!!😘) Never stop getting Realwithkem😘

Saturday, January 5, 2019

My Crush ❤️πŸ‘€

    ”Each time I walked into the office, I could hear my heart beats and I always lost concentration especially when I set my eyes on him.  Oh gosh! My heart and brain needed him to function well. My body wished to feel his glowing skin. He didn't even notice my feelings. His words gave another interpretation in my brain. All I could imagine him say was  ’I love you too.’ 
For real! I'm in love with him but I can't tell him. He knows I'm  married and my husband drops me off at work every day. I'm in a total mess.πŸ˜’πŸ€·‍♀”

That is the story of a married woman having a crush on another man at work. It should not be a surprising story. Let's all run  this issue through our minds before writing on it. What advice do you have for this woman? Feel free to in box me if you do not want to be identified. Let's just be REALWITHKEM😘

Wrong Turn

      Each step forward gives me hope, assurance, and something to live for. Unfortunately, it is difficult to keep taking the steps. I ca...